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Archive for February, 2011

Baby Tres Update -Week 12

We had our 12 week appointment yesterday where we did the NT testing. It is optional testing for trisomy 18 and downs syndrome which includes an ultrasound and blood-work. All tests came back normal, so chances are lower of having a child with those disorders. I know the NT testing can cause very heated debates among people. I am a planner, so knowing a head of time that my child could have a serious disorder, is MUCH better than not knowing. Some people take that knowledge and terminate their pregnancy based on the news. I in NO way would consider that and do not take the testing for that reason.

Again, it was beautiful to see the babies heart beating and being so active. I can’t wait to feel those movements. Bittersweet moment again for Dale and I as we watched our child. Before we left, we asked to hear the heartbeat again. That sound is healing to our hearts I think since it is the sound we couldn’t hear that night, almost 2 years ago.

I think it is a girl and we asked the technician to see if she could tell. She agrees with us…we’ll see in a few more weeks if we are right. She would NOT stop moving and her hands were always up by her eyes. You can see a hand in the picture above right by her eye.

I am definitely showing more now. Earlier it was just my fat expanding and now the baby is actually growing into it. Looks a little more like a pregnancy and not just “i wonder if she is” or just plain old fat. Oviously people can tell as well. I’ve had numerous comments over the last few days! I am allowing myself to enjoy this pregnancy and baby more and more everyday.

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